“His Secret Obsession” is an online guide that teaches women the practical tips and strategies to tap into a man’s inner desire. That’s when he literally becomes obsessed with his woman.
James Bauer a dating and relationship coach and also the author of worldwide bestselling courses His Secret Obsession and What Men Secretly Want shows the primal drive that ALL MEN are powerfully influenced by without even knowing it. It’s something he calls “The Hero Instinct”.
He believes the Hero Instinct is the biggest secret to becoming a man’s deepest passion and priority in life.
How can this be possible?
As he explains it’s because the Hero Instinct is a BIOLOGICAL DRIVE…just like hunger, thirst, and sex. But once this drive is triggered, it becomes more powerful than all 3 combined. This is what makes it virtually impossible for him to ignore.
He shows an example how it worked for one of his favorite clients Rachel.
RACHEL AND THE 12-WORD SECRET SIGNAL
I want to you meet my friend Rachel. (Name and details changed to protect her privacy). She’s one of my favorite clients.
One night, I got a call just as I was closing up the office to head home. It was Rachel. I recognized it right away…the catch in her throat…the hurt in her voice. I rushed to meet her at the Starbucks around the corner from my office.
From the running eyeliner… And the red, puffy eyes… It was obvious it was really bad this time.
She told me about Mike… Three months ago she was smitten and in love. They’d met at her best friend’s wedding and instantly hit it off. He did everything right. He surprised her with lunch at work. He called her literally every night. He planned out fun and romantic dates. And Rachel felt like she’d finally found the love she had wanted so badly for so long.
That was until three months later when something happened that every woman dreads. Rachel first noticed the signs in Mike’s voice. He was suddenly so cold, quiet and distant… And Rachel didn’t know why, or what she had done wrong.
I knew what Rachel had to do. It was a long shot, but I explained my idea to her. I told her that since Mike wasn’t answering his phone, she needed to trigger his secret obsession, or what I now call The Hero Instinct.
It was with a signal that would immediately get his attention. Even something like a text message or Facebook message would work. So I gave Rachel a simple 12-word text that she could send to Mike. And though I didn’t realize it at the time, I had just created the very first “Secret Signal”.
Hidden in those 12 innocent words was a subtle “trigger phrase” that was about to change everything.
After this the author began to discover other signals which have been perfected and combined into His Secret Obsession.
Here are just a few of the signals that are included in the course.
- The Fascination Signal
I’ll show you “The Fascination Signal” which you can use to spark such deep attraction in a man that you will become an emotional addiction to him. This innocent phrase is one of the most powerful signals I discovered and it can work in person, over the phone, or through text. When you use it he’ll feel an irresistible tug in his heart to be with you that’s so intense it will consume his every thought.
- Silent Action Signals
I’ll show you the “Silent Action Signals” Every Woman Should Know that will shift his Hero Instinct into high gear and instantly make you more alluring than any woman in sight.These signals are “Silent” because you don’t even have to say a single word yet he’ll get tunnel vision for you like love at first sight, even from across the room.You’ll know it’s working when he starts not-so-subtly trying catch your eye and make you smile.
- “IOU” Signal
Did you know you can actually use a man’s “selective hearing” to your advantage? And all you have to do is swap out 3 simple words that you say every day. I call this the “IOU” Signal and it’s every man’s secret turn on. It fills him with a deep trust in you that makes him see you as his only confidant. He’ll even start opening up to you before he opens up to his best guy friends.
- Damsel In Distress Signal
With the “Damsel In Distress Signal” you’ll discover how to tap into a man’s natural protective instincts to get his undivided love and attention at will. If you’re tired of him being on his phone all the time, being sarcastic and dismissive, or never being there in the moment with you then this is specifically for you. It lets you turn the tables by switching him into “Protect and Serve” mode. He’ll be the one falling all over himself to gain YOUR attention and admiration.
- The Ex-Back Signal
I call it “The Ex-Back Signal” and the best part is it’s impossible for him to ignore, resist, or “think his way out of”. Just drop these 12 words in a text, say them to him over phone or in person and notice how quickly he comes crawling back to you. This is because of the way this signal taps into his Hero Instinct. It’s your strongest chance to get him back and ensure that he’ll never leave again. And these are just a few of the amazing signals you’ll soon have at your fingertips. When you experience how effortless and blissful relationships can be, the past will seem like a bad dream.
All the strategies and practical tools included in the course are effective for the following relationship stages:
Stage 1: Attraction Stage
When trying to win the affections of a guy who doesn’t see me that way yet. How can i get him to see me as more than a friend? Why do guys show interest and then just drift away?
Stage 2. Dating but Falling Apart Stage
When things started great and now he’s drifting away. Why won’t he commit? When i want him to choose me and stop seeing other women.
Stage 3: Re-Spark Stage
When we’re together but need to Re-Spark the relationship He ignores me Why won’t he return my calls? He has grown cold or distant
Stage 4: Ex-Back Stage
It’s Over, But I want him back. I’m trying to start over with my ex. I want things to be like when we first met.
James Bauer believes that being irresistible is about a special set of qualities that emanate from feelings of happiness, true confidence, and a kind of inner beauty that pulls at a man’s heartstrings. Being irresistible is the embodiment of what makes a woman truly attractive in every sense of the word. It’s about creating an irresistible draw with who you really are. Never pretending to be someone else.
His training has helped hundreds of women across the world to improve their relationships and strengthen their marriages.
His Secret Obsession costs 47$. The guide includes 200+ pages ebook, workbook, plus bonus materials. Easy to download. Your order is protected by our 60-day, 100% money back guarantee. If you find it’s not a great fit you can get your money back!
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